If you’ve ever wanted to travel but felt completely overwhelmed by the planning, you’re not alone. A lot of people hand the whole thing off to a travel agent just to avoid the stress — and honestly, I get it. Planning a trip can feel like a part-time job. But here’s the thing: it’s a part-time job worth doing yourself. Let me tell you why, and then walk you through exactly how I do it.
Why You Should Plan Your Own Trip
Before the tips, though, you might be wondering why it’s worth making the effort to plan your trips when you can simply outsource that labor to a travel agent or website. Here are three reasons why.
You earn the miles and points
When you book your own flights and hotels, those miles and points go straight to you. Over time, this adds up to free flights, hotel upgrades, and serious savings — none of which you’re getting when someone else does the booking.
It builds anticipation
There’s something about researching a destination, finding a great hotel, and locking in a flight that makes the trip feel more real and more exciting. The planning is part of the experience.
You can tailor it to your family
A travel agent doesn’t know that your kids hate museums but love water parks, or that your partner needs a slow morning before any activity. You do. Planning your own trip means every decision is made with your people in mind.
You can build in flexibility
When you’re in control of your itinerary, you can leave room for rest days, spontaneous detours, or simply doing nothing. That kind of flexibility is hard to get when someone else has mapped out every hour.
How to Actually Plan a Trip (Step by Step)
Here’s my 9-step process for planning a trip that makes me love traveling!
1. Sort your documents first
Before you do anything else, check that your passport is valid, ideally with at least six months left before expiry. Then look up the visa requirements for your destination. As someone with a Nigerian passport, I always assume I have to apply for a visa unless otherwise proven. This step catches so many people off guard and is the easiest thing to handle early.
2. Decide your budget
Your budget shapes everything else on this list — where you go, how long you stay, where you sleep, and what you do. Be honest with yourself about what you’re working with before you fall in love with a destination that doesn’t fit.
Our most expensive destination was London so we had to make sure we’d saved enough before we made the trip.
3. Pick your destination
Once you know your budget, pick a destination that makes sense for it. And don’t just think about flights, think about the cost of living once you’re there. Some of the most expensive flights lead to the most affordable destinations, and vice versa. For example, Kenya and South Africa were much more expensive to fly to for us, but cost less than London to explore.
4. Decide what you actually want out of the trip
This one matters more than people realize. Are you craving relaxation? An all-inclusive resort or cruise might be your answer.
Do you want exploration — a safari, or your first time on a new continent like Asia? Are you looking for a laid-back family adventure in an Airbnb near the beach or mountains? Or do you want city vibes — think Europe, walkable streets, and great food? Knowing the kind of trip you want before you start booking saves you from ending up somewhere that doesn’t fit the vision.
5. Look for flights
Flexible travel dates are your best friend here. If you can shift your trip by a day or two, you can save significantly. I also recommend setting up flight alerts a few months out — Google Flights and Skyscanner are great for this, although some people swear by the platform Going. Watching prices over time gives you a feel for what’s a good deal before you commit.
6. Book your accommodation and sort out travel insurance
Once your flights are locked in, start looking at places to stay. One thing I love about booking hotels is that many are fully refundable, so you can secure a great option while you’re still figuring out the rest of the trip. If you’re torn between hotels and an Airbnb, I wrote a whole post about that here — it really depends on the trip.
This is also the time to look into travel insurance. It’s easy to skip, but a medical emergency or a cancelled flight abroad can be incredibly expensive without it. It’s worth the peace of mind.
7. Think about money
Before you travel, notify your bank so your card doesn’t get flagged abroad. Find out the local currency and whether you’ll need cash or if cards are widely accepted. If you don’t already have a travel credit card, it’s worth looking into. Many come with great perks like no foreign transaction fees and points on every purchase, which circles right back to tip #1.
8. Plan your activities
This is usually the hardest part of the whole process and the most personal. My best advice? Plan things you actually like to do. You won’t suddenly become a museum hopper just because you’re in another country if you’re an outdoorsy person. Lean into who you are as a traveler.
🧳 If a safari is on your list, start with what to pack for your first African safari so you’re prepared from day one.
For research, I start with people I know who’ve visited the destination, then move on to travel blogs (hi 👋), and Google from there. Look for recent posts — things change, and you want current information.
Don’t forget food! I always keep a running list in my Notes app, organized by neighborhood, so I know where to eat no matter which part of the city we’re in on a given day. I love trying out restaurants everywhere we go. Here’s my Nairobi guide and my Cape Town guide.
9. Build your daily itinerary
Once you have your activities list, start imagining what each day could look like. I think about it like: what’s the one thing I must do today, and what would be nice to add around it? Group activities by location so you’re not constantly crossing the city. And please, build in rest. A packed itinerary sounds great on paper but travel fatigue is real, and you’ll enjoy everything more when you’re not exhausted.
One Last Thing
Planning trips is a skill, and like any skill, you get better the more you do it. My first trip I planned myself felt like a lot. Now it feels like second nature. The research becomes fun, the booking becomes faster, and you start to know your own travel style well enough to make decisions quickly.
You’ve got this. And when you need a starting point, you know where to find me.
Have questions about planning a specific trip? Drop them in the comments — I’d love to help.
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